KayShibari
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About me

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I discovered Shibari / Kinbaku when I was a teenager but I never named it until 2019 in Barcelona, where I currently live.

I am a non-binary, bisexual, polyamorous and switch person. Maybe because of this, because of my way of seeing the world, it's hard for me to stick to just one role. Although I usually play the role of top ("dominant"), I am a switch, so I feel equally comfortable tying and being tied.

I see Shibari as a beautiful way to share intimacy. Sessions can be meditative, artistic, erotic… They can be focused on suffering, resistance, even channelling emotions. It depends on what each person is looking for in each moment.

Although I don't stick to any particular style (semenawa, kinbaku, etc.), my inspiration comes mainly from Naoko , Naka Akira , Rope Tales , Riccardo Wildties , Namor , A-Nicolas and RopuNawa . Depending on the moment and the person with whom I tie, we can go in one direction or another according to the intentionality of that session.

Since I discovered Shibari, I have trained myself in every possible way: private classes, workshops, reading books, articles, watching videos, listening to podcasts...

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